6 hours in the life of a pastor.
6am – get into the office, made some coffee, goofed off.
7am – Son wants breakfast, doesn’t want fast food, went with
him for breakfast at a local diner.
8am – Talked to staff member who is dealing with a life
changing illness in their family, I’m the first person outside of their family
to know about it. Just tried to be there for them on the phone.
9am – A church member is having a last-chance surgery and
wants to spend time in the sanctuary. I
don’t have much to say, so I play the guitar as they pray. I listen to them
tell me their fears and hopes for the upcoming surgery.
11am – I visit a lady who was been a part of my church since
I arrived. A few years ago, I buried her husband, a retired auto worker who in
his younger years had pastored two churches. He used to buy me lunch on Fridays
because he “knew how hard it was on pastors.” I never forgot his kindness. Now
his wife is lying in a bed at home, unresponsive. She left the hospital a week
earlier because she was tired of fighting. I had been by that week to have
communion with her and her family in her kitchen, I brought my guitar, and we
sang hymns, and we wept. I knew this time as I was coming over that she wasn’t
awake, but I felt like she’d still be aware, so I brought my Bible, figured I’d
read to her.
I read Psalm 91, “Blessed is the one who dwells in the shadow
of the Almighty”, “He will give His angels orders concerning you, to protect
you in all your ways”. I read Psalm 103, “Bless the Lord, oh my soul, and all
that is within me and forget not His benefits”, “He forgives all your iniquity;
he heals all your diseases”, “He has not dealt with us as our sins deserve.” I
knew her family life had been complicated; I know we all need grace.
Then I read about heaven, in Revelation 21 and 22, about the
New Jerusalem coming down out of the sky, about the gates of pearl, about the
streets of gold, and before I had finished reading about them, she was walking
on them. I left the room to inform her family, they called the hospice nurse, I
called her best friend, who also goes to our church, so that she’d hear it from
me.
1 pm – Had lunch with a ministry team in my church, they
were struggling with a volunteer. The lady at the restaurant knew about our
food pantry, so she sent over a free homemade dessert for me. I’m pre-diabetic.
2pm – Got my haircut. One of the stylists told me that she’d
been going through some things, so a friend had pointed her to a preacher she listened
to, said it helped her through some rough stuff and maybe could help this girl
as well. It was a clip of me preaching in our livestream.
3pm – Stopped back in at the church to talk to a few who had
gathered to remember our friend who had passed. I did some paperwork, listened
to some slow songs, and went home.
Just 9 hours in the life of a pastor.